Custom wedding Java

Custom wedding Java

Home to the cultural wealth has been recognized the world, one of which may be presented by the diversity of wedding traditions. which we will discuss here is the marriage with one of them indigenous Javanese. Javanese traditional marriage symbolizes the meeting between a beautiful bride and handsome groom in a special atmosphere so that the groom and bride as king and queen of the day.

Javanese traditional wedding ceremony performed by hereditary tradition that consists of many sub-ceremonies.
Application, if both partners have a match, then the groom's parents sent a messenger to the bride's parents to apply for their daughter, and parents also have to agree.

Preparation of marriage, in traditional Javanese wedding ceremony set up all the road ie Pemaes (Shaman bride who becomes the leader of the indigenous Prnikahan event). he took care of their looks and clothing groom and women of different shapes during the wedding.

Installation of decorations, usually 3 days before the wedding. front gate of her parents' house decorated with Tarub (decorative plants) consisting of coconut banana trees that thinking about the meaning for the couple love each other each other and will take care of their families. Another decoration is a flower prepared Virgin which is a wreath made from banana tree and coconut tree leaves.



Siraman, Its meaning is to mebersihkan soul and body, usually held in the afternoon, the day before the wedding. splash of water held in the homes of each parent, usually the do spray the parents and immediate family.

after the family agreed and they will be besan.keluarga of the groom visit the bride's family from holding a gift.

Ceremony qabul consent, this ceremony is the most important requirement in marriage passed, the time the bride's parents consent to marry his son to the groom. And the groom accepted illegitimate bride, accompanied by delivery of a dowry for the bride wanita.Pada when this agreement will be witnessed by the ruler or government officials who will record their marriage.

Exchange rings, as a symbol of love between the bride and groom sign both men and women.

Ceremony "dahar kembul", the bridegroom makes three small spots of rice with his right hand and give him to the bride. After the bride to eat it, he did the same to her husband. After they finished, they drink sweet tea



Sungkeman ceremony, Both bride bowing to both parents to ask blessings from their parents masing.pertama to the parents of the bride, then to the groom's parents. during Sungkeman lasted Pemaes take kris of bridegroom. after Sungkeman, the groom wore his return.